Resources
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Vanessa Weiland, PHASES Founder
Media Appearances
Women Mastering Midlife #77
Vaginal estrogren & GSM: Myths, Facts, Sexual Wellness in Midlife.
Listen here.
From Seed to Sky: Resilience Through Perimenopause and Menopause
Resilience in Perimenopause & Menopause: Hormones, Support, and Healing.
Listen here.
Women Mastering Midlife #23
Talking Hynotherapy, Hormones, and Mythbusting in Menopause.
Listen here.
Menopause & Endometriosis: The HRT Truth You Need to Know With Vanessa Weiland
Navigating Menopause With Endometriosis: Hormones, HRT, and Advocacy.
Listen here.
Bendy Menopause: Impacts of Hypermobility on Menopause
Hypermobility, Hormones, and Perimenopause: Understanding HRT, Symptom Changes, and Individualized Care.
Listen here.
Motherhood Meets Medicine #174
Navigating Perimenopause & Menopause: Early Signs, Hormone Therapy, and Personalized Care.
Listen here.
FIERCE Woman Radio: The Menopause Talk
Menopause & Hormone Therapy: Facts, Myths, and Advocacy.
Listen here.
Cutting Through the Myths Around Testosterone
Why that is, why it’s wrong and what the evidence really says.
Listen here.
Bendy Menopause: Strategies for Care with hEDS and other Hypermobility Spectrum Disorders with Vanessa Weiland
Perimenopause, Hypermobility, and Chronic Illness: Why Symptoms Change, Why Standard Care Falls Short, and What Helps.
Listen here.
As part of her mission to bring a patient-centered focus to midlife care, Vanessa is available to speak to groups, including medical professionals.
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Navigating the menopause journey can be complex, and we want to ensure you have access to the best possible tools and support.
Please know that some of the links we share for products on these resource pages are affiliate links. This means that if you click on the link and choose to make a purchase, we may receive a small commission, and this comes at absolutely no extra cost to you.
We only share resources and products that we genuinely believe can be beneficial and help support your unique well-being during this transition. These resources are not medical advice; always ask your own provider about any additional supplements.